Pietrus' birthday comes with mixed emotions

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Pietrus' birthday comes with mixed emotions

Mickael Pietrus will celebrate his 30th birthday on Tuesday in front of over 18,000 fans at the TD Garden during the Celtics-Bobcats game. But of all the people who will be in the crowd, one person will not be there, a harsh reality he has been living with since childhood.

I lost my mom when I was 9 years old, he told CSNNE.com. To me, a good birthday, anybody can give me a gift and you always have an appreciation, but its not coming from your mom. The person who raised you, who gave you that life every year, now shes gone. That doesnt make any sense to me. So I kind of take it from my heart and thats it.

Pietrus mother, Coco Claudine, was the center of his world. The youngest of his siblings, Pietrus was the baby and doted on by his adoring mom. Now the father of two children of his own, there are special moments Pietrus would like to share with his mother. Her passing is still incomprehensible to him.

She was sick and she could not take it anymore, he remembered. So instead of her suffering, God made that choice for her to rest in peace. That was when I was young. Its going to be a special day for me to be 30, to have two kids, but not having my mom around to play with my kids and stuff like that -- some people who are always hard on their mom, youve got to enjoy your mom. Youve got to enjoy your family because whenever stuff happens, you always have regrets and youre always going to miss them.

After his mothers death, Pietrus moved from France to the island of Guadelope to live with his grandmother. He was drafted by the Golden State Warriors in 2003 and has carried his mothers memory with him throughout the NBA since then.

When I step on the floor I pray for my mom, he said. I pray for my kids. I pray for myself, too, so everything goes right, I do the right thing on the floor to help my team be successful because at the end of the day, she always wanted to see me -- even though shes not with me -- have a smile on my face and go from here. Be positive in your life, dont look back, dont look at what I did for you, just do the best to raise your kids and educate them the best way you can.

Pietrus wants others to be happy because he knows the feeling of sadness.

With one of the most charismatic personalities in the league, he sings LMFAOs catchy song line, Im sexy and I know it, when the Celtics win; he dances to demonstrate his once sore back is no longer bothering him; and soaks up the spotlight when talking to the camera.

Pietrus also makes frequent mentions of his appreciation for life, a point he has emphasized several times this season.

I miss my mom, he said. People see me enjoy all this stuff, but at the end of the day Im trying to think of my mom every day.

Not wanting to let a moment pass him by, Pietrus is looking to seize the opportunity and help the Celtics win now. While he believes he can play another ten years in the league, he is focused on his role this season. The swingman is averaging 8.0 points per game and has given the bench an instant offensive spark.

My 30-year-old stage is trying to get something done in terms of basketball, trying to get a ring, he said. Between 20 and 28, you just want to show the coaches that youve got game, but at 30 youre more relaxed. They know what to expect from you on the floor as a professional and the coach respects you more because youre not like a young kid trying to show him what you can do. Thats what my 30 years old will be. Coach can trust me because now Ive got two kids and I have a family.

Pietrus looks forward to celebrating his birthday on the parquet floor. As always, he will approach the game with a positive attitude and soak up the energy from the crowd.

He will think about the one person he cant be with that day and appreciate the people he is with.

The game is like a fiesta, he said. People deal with so many issues at home and for me, to play in front of 20,000 people, they dont understand that Im trying to transcend a message. Life is short -- enjoy it. Im here to enjoy it with you. Bad time or good time, Im here to enjoy it with you. I see the smiles on all of the kids faces.

Every time Im out on the floor, enjoy it with me, ride with me.

Despite discord, Goodell's reign may not be nearing end

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Despite discord, Goodell's reign may not be nearing end

Monday may have marked a low point in the relationship between the NFL and its on-field employees.

The fight between the league and its best player of the past two decades was in the headlines again. Tom Brady, tied to the NFL’s bumper and dragged around for almost 500 days, had his NFLPA legal team baring its teeth again in the Deflategate mess. The eye-gouging and hair-pulling in that imbroglio over a puff of air allegedly being removed from footballs has cost the league and the PA about $25M so far.

Meanwhile, NFLPA President Eric Winston was saying the league "cannot be trusted to do the right thing when it involves players.” That comment flowed from a Congressional report alleging the NFL tried to exert influence over who would conduct studies regarding Chronic Traumatic Encephalopathy (CTE), the condition that’s been blamed for a myriad of former players winding up addled, incapacitated or dead.

I say “may have marked” because the relationship between the two sides has cratered so frequently over the past two years, it’s hard to know exactly what the low point has been. Or how much lower it can go.

And, with the 10-year Collective Bargaining Agreement only half done, there is ample opportunity for things to get worse. Because, really, why would they get better?

With the NFL’s owners safe knowing that their emperor/puppet/human shield is still in place to take the hits and do their dirty work, there’s seemingly no groundswell among that group to relieve Roger Goodell of his duties. Despite reports of growing owner discontent over Deflategate, the Ray Rice investigation, and an appeal of a case in which the league was found to have withheld $100M from players, there is no Sword of Damocles dangling over the league to cut ties with Goodell.

He was able to oversee the league’s re-entry in Los Angeles (though that “triumph” was fraught with owner acrimony), is going to get a game played in China, keeps edging closer to getting a franchise based in Europe and may even land one in Las Vegas, has enhanced the league’s reach on social media (the announcement of some games being aired on Twitter) and keeps making billions hand over fist.

Goodell’s presence won’t be an impediment to a new labor deal getting done for another five years. By then, when the issues of Goodell’s role in player discipline, drug testing and his relationship with the union come to the fore, the owners might feel compelled to cut him loose after 15 seasons in charge.

But even then, the league’s owners will be in the business of pointing out to the players how good they’ve had it under the current CBA. The league’s salary cap structure – decried as a disaster in the first years of the deal – has seen the cap grow from $120M in 2011 to $155M this year. Players’ practice time and the wear and tear on their bodies has been reduced thanks to the new limits on contact enacted. Benefits are better. Retired players are getting better care. Players have more off-field marketing opportunities with companies that want to affix themselves to the most popular sport in the United States.

As bad as the headlines have been for Goodell, in five years (or probably fewer since negotiations on a new CBA will begin in 2020) who will remember the disaster that’s been Deflategate? How inspired will players be to miss games and paychecks for the satisfaction of knowing Goodell can’t be his own arbitrator anymore?

To sum it up, Goodell’s dark disciplinary reign may well continue unabated for a few more seasons. But as long as the league rains money on its players through the end of this decade, the clock isn’t ticking on Goodell and the owners in the form of labor strife.

Smith: Brady made an 'incredibly generous offer' to settle Deflategate

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Smith: Brady made an 'incredibly generous offer' to settle Deflategate

NFLPA executive director DeMaurice Smith joined the Dan Patrick Show -- hosted by Ross Tucker on Monday -- to discuss the petition that was eventually filed to the Second Circuit requesting a rehearing for Tom Brady's case. 

During the discussion, Smith insisted that Brady made a settlement offer long ago that might've resolved things. But because the NFL wanted more, a deal was never struck. Now here we are, almost 500 days since the AFC Championship Game in January of 2015, and Deflategate is still a living, breathing thing. 

"Tom's a standup guy," Smith said. "And I think he made a settlement offer to resolve this. The league chose not to take it, and that's where we are . . . I don't want to go into details, but it was an incredibly generous offer to resolve this. The league asked for something that no man should agree to do."

Patriots Insider Tom E. Curran explained on Monday's episode of Quick Slants that Brady was willing to accept a one-game suspension for a lack of cooperation at the outset of the investigation. But the league was looking for a face to take the blame, Curran explained. 

Both Jim McNally and John Jastremski were willing to take the heat off of Brady, but Brady insisted that he would not throw anyone else under the bus because he believed that there was no wrongdoing on his part or anyone else's when it came to the preparation of game footballs. 

With no one offered up to shoulder the blame, the NFL declined to agree to any proposal from Brady's camp. At that point, it would have been almost impossible to predict that this case would one day be only a step or two from getting the US Supreme Court involved. 

Yet here we are.